Monday, October 22, 2012

hello misha, goodbye misha

Since being invited into the SA Blogger's forum I have met some incredible individuals!  Everyone has been so kind and exceedingly generous.  Last week three bloggers got together to offer the group free head shots.  I immediately jumped at the offer!  I mean...a chance to fancy up and be photographed...of COURSE I will participate!

Seeing as how I work during the week I was unable to make it to the shoot at Bakery Lorraine.  Thus, I chose the shoot during the weekend at Point Park and Eats.  Misha Hettie with hello misha was kind enough to meet me out there, despite the fact all the others canceled.  I was (very secretly) fine with that as I would have her services 100% to myself.

As Misha stepped out of her car, bright pink hair blowing in the wind, precious boy in tow, I was mesmerized!  What a glorious, radiant woman.  After the shoot, Misha and I had some time to visit while her son enjoyed play time and I dined on some seriously savory coconut shrimp tacos and green tea by Kitchen Fusionz.

Misha shared that she and her husband were moving to Orange County this week.  I just about cried....what a bummer I didn't have time to get to know Misha and her family better.  Those of you in the Orange County area are welcoming home an incredible photographer, hip mother and general kick ass human being.

Today Misha shared her photos.  This is, by far, my favorite!
Dearest Misha...I wish you nothing but the best!  It was a true pleasure spending 45 minutes with you and your sweet son.  I love the photos.  Happy packing!

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Sunday, October 21, 2012

A Bird and a "B"

I am woefully behind on blogging.  I have been blessed with a ton of "blogger-tunities" but have had precious little time to catch up on each of the opportunities.  They are posts that require a lot of thought and I have been running around so much this weekend I can hardly "hold a thought" let alone create a string of cogent thoughts that I would care to share with the world wide web!  This post will focus mostly on precious photos...and food.  I can ALWAYS put together a solid thought surrounding food....especially a worthy sandwich!

In the rush of the last few days I visited Elaine Turner boutique over my lunch break.  I needed to grab a quick bite and being four doors down from Bird Bakery, the decision was a lock!  I have heard GREAT things about Bird Bakery and while I have nary a sweet tooth, I was informed they create delicious sandwiches....perfect for my lunch on the go.  

I walked in and was immediately transported, chorus of angels singing "aaaaaaaa-aaaaaaah" in the background music of my head.  What a gorgeous bakery.  Attention to detail abounds and a truly delicious experience, not only for the mouth, but for the eyes has been handily crafted by the famous guy and his wife.  (Sorry guys...that is how I have been referring to you in my head!  I didn't see the Facebook movie. I know, I am the only person on the planet that hasn't.)

Below are some photos I snapped with my handy camera phone whilst waiting for my California Turkey Sandwich.








By the way...my sandwich was an experience, rather than just "lunch."  I mean, raspberry mayonnaise? I am SOLD!  Henceforth, I will look for any excuse to head down to Bird Bakery and bathe in the shabbiest of chic venue in town....but make no mistake...there is absolutely nothing shabby about the food...only chic!  

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Thursday, October 18, 2012

Mommy Tori + Elaine Turner = Fun Loot

Ladies...run...don't walk to Elaine Turner to claim your prizes and enter for an even bigger prize!  

Here's how.....
And...while you're at it....check out Mommy Tori at sTORIBook!  She is a bloggin' gal with a great, brand new, recently updated blog!  Yay!  Fete loves Mommy Tori!

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Sunday, October 14, 2012

Half The Sky

I've been complaining about something.... A LOT....lately.  I've been consumed in this complaint and in myself and feeling victim-ish and generally deflated.

The Universe is so very brilliant sometimes...well, all the time.  The Universe has a way of holding a mirror straight up to your face at the most perfect moments possible.

I've had Half the Sky waiting in my DVR list for over a week.  PBS seems to be running it at very obscure hours (hmmmmmm?) and I've had to set the DVR in order to watch the program.
This evening, I sat down, in the comfort of my home, in a brand new fluffy bed, surrounded by all the belongings my education, my profession, my career allow me to have and I watched women half way across the world die trying to give birth to babies because their genitals are so mutilated they suffer horrendous after effects.  They also die from complications related to pregnancy that are simple to care for because health care is not even a consideration.  I watched young girls sold into sex trafficking simply because they were born into it, as were their mothers, grandmothers, etc.  I heard a woman say she loved her man, they all loved their men and their men only lived to beat them.  And if they weren't man enough to beat them, their brothers would.  And when she tried to go home to her parents, they sent her back because being "beaten" is just part of being a woman in their society; it is expected.  I saw a young lady yanked out of the ONLY hope she had, her school, in order to move to another village where she would certainly become a sex provider.  I saw a woman who was beaten, repeatedly, to within an inch of her life and expected to serve 20-30 men A DAY...A DAY!

I've been complaining about something.... A LOT....lately.  I've been consumed in this complaint and in myself and feeling victim-ish and generally deflated.

Reading that opening line disgusts me tonight.  It becomes particularly more disgusting when I consider one woman who almost lost both her eyes in a beating is now the leader of a village of women and their children where they are trying to set up a society of their own by creating beaded pieces of high queen art.  I saw a woman, who is still a prostitute, hand over her daughter to an activist who educates young women...because THAT IS HOW MUCH SHE LOVES HER DAUGHTER!  Her daughter intends to become a lawyer.  I saw women turn 50 cents into a small empire through micro financing.  I saw a nurse-midwife, herself the victim of genital mutilation, open a hospital for women who suffer sequela of mutilation.  She also delivers babies under oppressive circumstances.  But beyond that, she has taught local women to become midwives and advocates against mutilation.  I saw a woman, living with HIV, supporting five children through her work as a seamstress.  And each of her children are successfully enrolled in school.  

I've been complaining about something.... A LOT....lately.  I've been consumed in this complaint and in myself and feeling victim-ish and generally deflated.

Really, Patty?  Really?

From the moment I open my eyes until the moment I fall into bed I am living the dream.  Truly, living the dream.  Are we better, are we smarter, are we more deserving than any of these women, these people, our fellow brothers and sisters? 

No, we are just luckier.  

And do I take that luck for granted?  You bet I do.  

But, tomorrow, will be just a little bit different for me.

I fully intend to purchase the book Half the Sky just as soon as I hit "publish" on this post.  As a human, on this earth, we owe it to each other to be informed, to be aware, to be empowered and to be a force for change.
I've certainly got a lot of thinking to do.  I am going to watch the other two hours later this week.  I would like to inquire about the products created by these women.  If I receive any information I will share it forward.


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Thursday, October 11, 2012

An Interview: Heather Hunter of Quarry Farmers & Ranchers Market

I am thrilled to add a new component to Fete! It is time for Fete to invite more voices!  In addition to awesome guest bloggers...I have had the privilege of interviewing some EXTRAORDINARY people!

Here's to my inaugural interview with....

...Heather Hunter from Quarry Farmers & Ranchers Market!


What was the inspiration for the Quarry Farmers & Ranchers Market?

We didn’t like the other farmers markets in town and felt there was a need for a real farmers market with high standards and one that actually supported only small, local farmers, ranchers and producers of artisan foods.
How long, from idea to inception?  

We started thinking about this in September 2010 and opening day was May 1, 2011.

What obstacles did you encounter?  

Actually, we got great cooperation from the Quarry Market and Whole Foods Market. However, due to all the contractual relationships that existed, we just needed to sort through all of the details so that everybody was happy with the outcome.

What great people did you meet along the way?

The Whole Foods staff that worked on this in the Austin office were great and the general manager of the Quarry Market was also supportive and helped put this together.

All of the farmers, ranchers and artisan food producers that are currently selling at the market are truly inspirational people. They endure lots of challenges and difficulties considering the drought, excessive heat and other conditions that exist year-round in Texas—yet each and every week, they bring extraordinary products.
Who was your "rock" as you moved towards creating this possibility for yourself, and by extension, our community?

My husband, partner and best friend, F. David Lent, was the trailblazer in this project. It was his idea, he picked the location, he worked his magic with our partners and each and every week, he roams the market talking with our members and customers and continues to inspire, challenge and compliment people on their accomplishments.

What came first...Cowgirl Granola or Quarry Farmers & Ranchers Market?

Cowgirl Granola was born in May 2009. I always made Christmas baskets comprised of homemade goodies for friends and family and in 2001, I added granola to the mix. Each year, I would tweak the recipe a bit, adding a little more this or a little less that until I hit the jackpot.

Throughout the year, those who received my granola at the holidays would beg me to “make more granola.” And I would. It was Christmas 2008 and I sent a dinner guest home with a basket of goodies—granola being one of the items. He called me every day after that telling me how amazing the granola was and that I should make it to sell.

I was retired at the time and enjoying not working, but I told him I would think about it. And I did. For three months. Until one day I decided to give it a try. On Sunday, May 5, 2009, I went to a rinky-dink farmers market with two other vendors at Green Vegetarian Restaurant on N. Flores where I had 13 bags of granola. In less than two hours, I sold every bag. My husband looked at me and we both knew it was the start of another fun adventure.
Tell me about Cowgirl Granola....I want to know EVERYTHING!  When did you being making granola?  What inspired you to start making granola?  I LOVE the "Cowgirl" theme...what inspired you to give it a Texas twist?

Again, the name Cowgirl Granola was inspired by my husband, David. One night, he woke up at 3 am and the name came to him.

I think there are a number of nuances in the name, Yes, the granola is “ranch-crafted in Texas.” Yes, I am a fifth-generation Texan.

More than anything, once David came up with the name, I was inspired by a Dale Evans quote that I feel really gets to the heart of what Cowgirl Granola stands for:

“Cowgirl is an attitude, really; a pioneer spirit, a special American brand of courage. The cowgirl faces life head on, lives by her own lights and makes no excuses. Cowgirls take stands. They speak up. They defend the things they hold dear. A cowgirl might be a rancher, or a barrel racer, or a bull rider, or an actress. But she's just as likely to be a checker at the local Winn Dixie, a full-time mother, a banker, an attorney, or an astronaut."

If someone were interested in participating in your Sunday Morning Quarry Farmers & Ranchers Market as a vendor, how might they go about applying?  How is one eligible to participate..."local" "organic" "home made"....etc?  I know someone who makes a MEAN organic chocolate chip cookie! :) It's my very secret recipe!

We have a Vendor Selection Committee comprised of market members, board members and our partners who come together to discuss every application that is up for consideration. It is also mandatory that they be local and we sample whatever it is that the person wants to sell.

We ask ourselves: Is the product unique? Is the product something that people would want to buy? Is the product the best of the best? Is the product something that we don’t already have? Is the applicant going to fit well within our market and take care of our customers?

These are all questions that the committee answers and, collectively, we make a decision that we feel is best for the market.
What is your vision for Quarry Farmers & Ranchers Market?  Say...a year from now?  Two years from now?  

We are probably at maximum capacity concerning the space, so any kind of large expansion is probably not going to happen. We constantly work with our vendors to come up with new ideas and seasonal products as well as marketing strategies to help get the word out. It always amazes me how many people I meet that do not know the Quarry Farmers & Ranchers Market exists.

We also will strive to maintain our quality standards and excellent customer relations.

What makes the Quarry Farmers & Ranchers Market unique?

We have no desire to just “rent” booth space for economic purposes. We consider the market and our market members as a representative of who and what we are. I have been in the hospitality business for 10 years including owning a large resort in Mexico and am adamant about maintaining the same standards at our local farmers market as we do in our 5-star property.

We have so many great comments about the “energy” and the “spirit” of the market. And most of our members have become our friends and we often get together (over good food) to discuss the success of the market and the ways that we can improve it.

We have also served as an incubator for several “cottage-type” food artisans in launching their businesses and helping them move on to bigger and better things. For example, the new permanent location of Bakery Lorraine and their incredible success in just one year of being at the market.

My husband and I have been at every market since opening and have never missed one. I think our dedication and the fact that the “owners” are on-site is truly the key to ensuring success.

A HUGE thank you goes out to Heather Hunter and her husband F. David Lent.  I am honored that you both took the time to answer my questions with such honesty and thoughtfulness.

DON'T WAIT...HEAD TO QUARRY FARMERS & RANCHERS MARKET ON SUNDAY MORNING.  IT IS LOCATED IN THE PARKING LOT IN FRONT OF WHOLE FOODS MARKET.  THEY ARE OPEN FROM 9AM-1PM.  GO HUNGRY AND TAKE YOUR FAVORITE FOUR LEGGED FRIEND!

You can visit Quarry Farmers and Ranchers Market here.  And head to their Facebook page by clicking here.



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A few FABULOUS BLOGGERS have come together to bring you a great October Giveaway...
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The Giveaway runs from September 18, 2012-October 13, 2012.

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